Which behavior characterizes contempt in a relationship?

• A. Genuine appreciation and humor
• B. Insults, mockery, hostile humor, or eye-rolling
• C. Neutral, respectful disagreement
• D. Calmly expressing boundaries

Answer: (B)

Contempt in a relationship is a form of active disrespect that communicates that your partner is inferior or worthless. It’s typically shown through demeaning comments, insults, mocking or sarcastic humor, and dismissive eye-rolling or tone. This kind of behavior signals contempt for the person rather than the issue, and it erodes trust and connection over time.

The behavior described—insults, mockery, hostile humor, or eye-rolling—best fits that pattern of contempt because it conveys disdain and a sense of superiority. By contrast, genuine appreciation and humor reflect warmth and positive regard; neutral, respectful disagreement stays civil without contempt; and calmly expressing boundaries addresses issues without attacking the partner’s character.