Which is a key indicator of ongoing commitment despite fluctuations in relationship satisfaction?

• A. Consistent repair attempts.
• B. Frequent arguments.
• C. Total independence.
• D. Avoidance of deep conversations.

Answer: (A)

The main idea is that ongoing commitment shows up in how couples handle conflicts and stay connected even when satisfaction isn’t steady. Consistent repair attempts are actions aimed at de-escalating tension and reconnecting after a disagreement—things like apologies, soothing, clarifying intent, or proposing a time to discuss the issue calmly. These moves signal that both partners prefer to stay together and invest in the relationship despite bumps in how happy they feel at any moment. Over time, regular repair helps maintain trust and closeness, keeping the relationship resilient even when daily satisfaction fluctuates.

Frequent arguments by themselves don’t guarantee commitment; they show conflict, and without repair efforts the relationship can deteriorate. Total independence implies stepping back from the relationship, which undermines commitment. Avoidance of deep conversations indicates pulling away rather than engaging to work through issues, again not a sign of ongoing commitment.