Which statement describes how infidelity can be addressed in therapy with the aim of repair?

• A. Deny the affair and never discuss it.
• B. Open communication, rebuilding trust, forgiveness, and structured repair processes.
• C. End relationship immediately.
• D. Ignore boundaries.

Answer: (B)

When infidelity is addressed with the aim of repair, the approach centers on open, honest communication about what happened and how it affected each person, rebuilding trust through consistent and transparent actions, and guiding both partners toward healing with forgiveness and a clear, structured plan for repair. This means talking about the hurtful behavior, taking accountability, and expressing needs and boundaries in a safe setting with a therapist guiding the process. Forgiveness plays a role as a part of healing, recognizing that it often unfolds over time and does not mean condoning the betrayal. A structured repair process gives the couple practical steps—such as agreed boundaries, accountability measures, follow-up check-ins, and specific behavioral commitments—that help rebuild trust and intimacy.

Denying the affair and never discussing it blocks healing, because it avoids accountability and leaves the hurt unresolved. Ending the relationship immediately is a personal choice that may be valid in some cases, but it is not a repair strategy within the couple. Ignoring boundaries undermines safety and trust, making repair unlikely.